You know, when they're three, four, five years old, ask them, what do you think that you should have done? when they do something bad, when they hit their sister or something like that? Hey, Johnny, do you feel like that was the right thing to do in that moment? No. What do you think was the right thing to do in that moment? Oh, I probably shouldn't have hit her, okay, what should you have done instead and let them come up with the answer and then what happens is they come to the answer of yeah, I made a mistake, I shouldn't have done that versus being like you shouldn't do that, you're gonna be punished, go to time out.