Sometimes I might just say "Ouch! ". Sometimes it's about, I just look at people, or make a, or make a face. I learned this from my kid, my kid does things like, "Awkward, that's just awkward, right? " Or sometimes people like, "Oh no, you need to catch up on that, I don't think that's the right language. " So the main thing I want to say is that you don't have to go into a big, you know, workshop, this is something that I've learned. You basically need to register a response.