You guys know that the person hurting you physically mentally, sexually is also the person that you love or loved so much and it is really, really hard to untangle that and here's the thing you guys, if you're listening to this and you're in high school right now, I want you to stop what you're doing and listen to my words because according to dosomething. org, one in three, young people will be in an abusive or unhealthy relationship, which means that if it's not happening to you, it is probably happening to someone, you know.